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      Most women can greatly increase the number and intensity of their orgasms with the sexual stimulation of the "orgasm on demand" techniques described in this short publication. Also included in this publication are details on how to give a woman another tremendously pleasurable experience called "Swedish Breast Massage." Women almost anonymously consider this experience as or more pleasurable than oral stimulation of the breasts. If you're a man, read this and/or get the book to increase your lovemaking skills, possibly by quite a bit. If you're a woman, read this and/or order this publication from us or your bookstore to give to your man. If nothing else ladies, read the below to make sure you're not missing out on something this good. You owe it to yourself! Please note that this works, on as much as 90% of women that embrace it and try it.

A woman’s capacity for sexual pleasure is simply spectacular, yet of the up to 55 billion woman who have lived in the history of humankind, only a very few have experienced 5 or more orgasms regularly during sex. That plain and simply has to change especially since having such an experience for so many women doesn’t need to be that difficult.

Hi, this publication primarily discusses a little known and often easy way to help women achieve a surprisingly large number of orgasms, probably more than they’ve ever had before, and it doesn’t require drugs, surgery, hypnosis or any kind of financial expenditure. What it does require is a quality male lover (assuming it’s a heterosexual relationship) and respect by the woman for her lover.

I had a lover years ago who would only orgasm when I did. Apparently something about me having an orgasm triggered her brain to give the rest of her body the go ahead to orgasm. Certainly it wasn’t that she had physical limitations that made it such that she could only orgasm when I did. Her orgasm scenario is a good example of how very important the brain, and in particular the subconscious, is in determining when us humans have orgasms.

As we all know, some women can have more orgasms than others. Why is that? Well a great deal of it is due to subconscious decisions that the woman’s mind make. More often than not it's not due to physical limitations. This isn’t my opinion, this is well-regarded knowledge. As it turns out the subconscious mind also has a huge impact on when the male is going to have their orgasm. Don’t forget that most premature ejaculation cases are caused by psychological reasons.

In regard to the act of sex, most men tend to concentrate on a woman’s body to stimulate her sexually, which is not a bad idea of course but if you only concentrate on her body, in most cases that’s not enough. In my opinion, what most men have not taken advantage of near enough in providing sexual pleasure to women is direct sexual stimulation/manipulation of her mind, and because of this, the number of orgasms women are having may have suffered terribly.

Well here it is folks, and I swear it’s works on most women that embrace it.

We all know that there’s a natural tendency by women to be submissive during sexual activity. As we know, men usually lead and make most of the decisions regarding how the actual physical act of lovemaking occurs. As an example, men tend to more often decide:

• What sex positions the couple takes
• How long foreplay lasts and what occurs during foreplay
• The length the couple is in a particular sex position
• The length of intercourse.

The fact is the emotional state of mind that most women have during sexual activity, even if it's well prior to their orgasm, often is to act in a submissive manner to her lover. Well the bottom line is that in this sexually aroused state, it’s normal for her subconscious mind to be more susceptible to suggestions regarding sex. If she respects her lover, if he’s doing a good job as a lover, if she’s appropriately aroused and if she’s told with confidence by her lover to cum---a great many women will, believe it or not, cum right then and there, or quite soon afterwards. In addition, if she’ll do this (“cum on demand,”) she’ll often do it again and again during that same period of lovemaking. Please believe me. I have done this with a number of women and know of women who have had this done to them by other lovers. This is because she is no longer making the subconscious decision as to when she is going to have her orgasms. She has yielded that responsibility to her lover and her subconscious mind fully accepts his authority in the matter.

Okay so instead of indirectly stimulating the woman’s mind to increase her arousal (through foreplay, kissing, caressing, intercourse, saying sexy, sweet things, gifts, etc..) what we’re discussing here is going directly to the source of much of her sexual stimulation and that’s her subconscious mind. You won’t believe how well this can work. Frankly ladies you may be frustrated that you are now just finding out about it. Remember ladies your subconscious mind doesn’t usually care who tells it to cum; it can be your own mind giving the order or it can be your man. As a woman you just have to be in the right frame of mind to let it happen.

Having given a number of women this experience for the first time, I have seen that it effects women in various ways. One lady jumped out of bed and had to stop having sex, as the sudden number of orgasms she was having seemed too much of a shock for her. One didn’t know what to say and had a silly grin on her face for quite a while. One went to sleep, even though we weren’t through. Ladies, if you haven’t yet experienced it, I wonder what your reaction is going to be?

In this day and age, mention or insinuate the “s” word (submissive) to women and watch out! Please note however that when I’m indicating the need for the lady to be sexually submissive I’m not talking about her needing to be submissive in life, just sex and even then being fully submissive is not necessary. The kind of direct sexual stimulation of the subconscious that we’re discussing in this publication works equally well with a woman who’s a manager and/or gives orders all day, as it does with women who are the opposite. Again, we’re basically talking about attitudes during and to a lesser extent leading up to the actual act of sex.

Now there are a number of ways for a man to display the 'subtle sexual dominance' necessary for the woman’s subconscious to adequately respect him so she’ll orgasm when he tells her to. Remember ladies, if your subconscious innately respects your lover, it will be much easier for your subconscious to accept his authority when he orders you to cum.

The subtle sexual dominance I’m speaking of can be accomplished in various ways though the best subtle sexual domination games probably will be the ones each couple makes up. So be creative and spend some time on it, particularly you guys. Your reward is potentially giving your woman great sex and all the benefits that go with it. Ladies please make sure your lover knows if you have an idea or preference. Remember guys, the best time to make and/or do the subtle sexual suggestions and activities listed below (and that which you make up) is often when your woman is feeling the most relaxed, aroused and romantic.

     Some suggestions are:

• Tell her how happy and good as a man it makes you feel to be able to make her orgasm so often and/or hard.
• Tell her how relaxed and good she looks after she’s had this kind of sex.
• During the day and/or night, touch her, kiss her, hold her, arouse her and tell her to prepare to have at least (pick a substantial number) orgasms when you next make love. By then you two will be veterans at all this and to make such a statement won’t seem unreasonable to her. A variation would be to tell her you’re going to ‘torture’ her with ecstasy.
• Offer her a gift or reward if she cums especially often and/or hard that night. You can also offer it after she’s orgasms say 50 times total if it’s within say a 3 - 4 weeks. (Just an example.)
• Tell her she’ll be required to orgasm especially hard and/or often that night as punishment. (Warning - if this is allowed in the parameters of your relationship then you may not want to use this suggestion too often as she might make it a point of regularly getting in trouble!)
• Tell her that next time she wants sex, she’s going to have to promise to orgasm at least 8 (or whatever) times.
• Tell her this type of sex (what’s discussed in this publication) is your preferred way to have sex and if you two are going to make love, she’s simply going to have to cum a lot. (Try to ignore it guys if she laughs.)
• Less subtle sexual domination games can also be used if these fit in the parameters of your relationship. These can include spanking and tying her to the bed.

• Tell her how beautiful it makes her look when she cums.
• Tell her that she can show you how much she loves/cares about you by cumming NOW. An alternative would be to say that, but to require her to cum extra long or extra hard this time.
• During her orgasm hold her tight and tell her “I’m right here for you, I won’t let you go.” Or “I’m right here with you, holding you.” Guys it’s well appreciated when you say nice, loving things to her during her orgasm.
• As a punishment game, take her to the brink of orgasm and stop--then start over but this time let her have her orgasm. Ladies this orgasm can be pretty powerful, but guys most often this is something to do only after she is a veteran at all this, not when she’s new to it.
• Just plain and simply say with conviction “cum” or “okay I want you to cum now--cum, cum for me.” Of course you can add to the phrase other loving and inspiring things.
• Before you plan on telling her to orgasm, prepare her by saying something like, “I’m going to want you to cum very soon now.” You shouldn’t need to do this regularly, just sometimes it a good idea, especially if she’s having trouble building up to an orgasm or another orgasm.

Might I just add gentleman that talking sexy to your woman while she is in the throngs of passion, particularly during intercourse, is something that’s apparently not done enough, and for our purposes it’s a very good idea.

Remember guys you need to mean it when you say this stuff and she needs to take you seriously. Be confident and convincing in your tone of voice but of course always tender. Don’t be surprised however if, especially when first introduced to all this, her first response is to laugh and/or for the whole thing not to work period. Be persistent guys, for both your sakes. In many cases she’ll be very glad you did.

Now some women will read ideas in this publication and feel at least some of it takes away from their dignity. If so, guys work it out with your woman or please avoid those suggestions and concentrate on others, including ideas you and your lover make up. However guys remember, all your subtle and less subtle sexual domination games are strictly consensual. Never be abusive. If your lover won’t accept something concerning these games then you can’t do it. It’s that simple.

Now what about you ladies who have never had orgasms or have difficulty having orgasms? Well there are no guarantees with any sexual enhancement method but remember the reason a woman can’t have an orgasm, or has difficulty achieving an orgasm, is generally not due to physical limitations. It’s something in her mind, often her subconscious. So with the method of sexual enhancement we’re discussing, it would seem logical that because her lover now decides when her orgasm is to occur, not the part of her brain that has been causing her difficulty experiencing orgasms, she could very probably see an improvement in her orgasm capabilities. The fact is ladies, while it could take longer for women with orgasm related frustrations to achieve 5 or more orgasms regularly, it can work. I am speaking from experience. And guys if you give a lady her first orgasm, multiple orgasms or first orgasm from intercourse, she’ll be very grateful.

Ladies don’t be let down if you don’t achieve immediate success, but to be quite honest, don’t be surprised if you do. Again, a good deal of how quickly you’ll succeed with this may be determined by how naturally submissive you are and/or how submissive you are in sexual interactions with your man. However when it starts working (assuming it does,) ladies you’ll get greedy for orgasms and also for more intense and longer ones. Hopefully your lover will get excited about it all and get greedy himself, getting off on your mounting pleasure. He should want you to steadily progressive to more orgasms and/or longer orgasms and/or more intense orgasms.

Guys, perhaps you’re wondering when exactly is the best time to tell your lover to cum. What signs do you look for? First off, it’s different with different women of course so whatever I say here is very generalized. The general rule of thumb guys is to wait until she’s between an eighth to 3/4 of the way to orgasm. Of course if this is new to her, you’ll probably want to let her get closer to an orgasm than if she was a veteran at this. With time you can progressively lessen how close to orgasm she needs to be when you tell her to cum. Admittedly there are those women who can literally “cum on demand” anywhere or anytime, without sexual stimulation, but that’s an extreme thing, not something that we should expect any woman to ever be able to do.

As long as we’re having this friendly chat, I’d like to share with you some other sexual experiences women usually love.

The female breast is an amazing biological creation. Ladies your wondrous mammary glands can give you an unbelievable and spectacular amount of pleasure. There is no doubt in my mind that lady’s breasts are often terribly underused for purposes of her pleasure. One of the best ways to take advantage of the mammary gland’s seemingly bound-less pleasure capacity is via Swedish Breast Massage.

There are many positions the lady can be in to receive this specialized and incredibly exciting breast massage. For our example though, let’s have the lovely lady lying on her back, at least topless. You sit on her on a comfortable area of her body for both of you. Guys you don’t need to be, but if it's okay with her I suggest you be at least bottom-less as many women will lose control at some point when getting Swedish Breast Massage, especially if they’ve never experienced it before.

Before having placed yourselves in the positions mentioned above, make sure you have handy an ample amount of good massage oil or lotion. If possible, warm it briefly in the microwave oven or hot water. Have the oil or lotion nearby of course, as well as a towel to wipe the oil/lotion off of your hands and her breasts because that’s where it’s going.

Place a liberal amount of massage oil/lotion on your hands, rubbing it all over the palms of your hands to spread it out as well as warm it if it’s not yet warm. Then place your hands on her breasts, BUT NOT YET on her nipples and areolas. This is because the best is saved for last!

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REMEMBER GUYS, ALWAYS KEEP HER BREASTS VERY LUBRICATED. WHEN HER BREASTS START TO FEEL AT ALL STICKY, MORE LOTION NEEDS TO BE PUT ON. REMEMBER, YOU CAN’T MAKE HER BREASTS TOO LUBRICATED. ALSO YOUR NAILS AND SKIN SHOULD BE SMOOTH AND NOT JAGGED. TRIM THOSE LONG AND/OR PRICKLY FINGERNAILS AND HANGNAILS ETC.. OR SHE MIGHT FEEL THEM AS THEY RUB AGAINST HER SENSITIVE SKIN. 

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You will find your own favorite methods of actually massaging her breasts but some suggestions are below (not in order of importance):

• Circle her breasts with your hands, using one then two and then of all your fingers. Go counter-clockwise then clockwise (or vice-versa.)
• Start from the base of her breasts and work your way up to just below her areolas.
• Place one hand on the base of her breasts (where her breast meets her chest,) the back of your hand should be facing her head. Place the other hand on the base of her other breast, the back of it should be facing her legs. Slide your hands from left to right, and vice-versa, across and along both breasts.
• Wrap each hand around one of her breasts at its base then run your hands around and along that breast in a spiral motion steadily upwards until you reach the edge of her areolas.  Of course you can go in the opposite direction also (starting from the top and working your way down.)
• Firmly hold each breast at its base and pull up on it until you reach the edge of the areolas (or her nipples if you're massaging them also.) Then slide your hands back down from the top of her breasts to the breast’s base (where you started from) and repeat the procedure many times.
• Slide only your fingertips over her breasts, wiggling your fingers.
• Concentrate on only one breast and wrap both hands around it, kneading it.

Now guys as you may remember I suggested you take your time before playing with her areolas and nipples. This is because she will still get a good deal of pleasure from having the ‘nipple-less’ massage we just spoke of and chances are excellent she will even beg you to play with her nipples--because as we know this is where the breasts are the most sensitive. I usually wait until she is quite stimulated then I may tell her I’m about to play with her nipples--then I’ll wait just a bit to increase her anticipation--then suddenly do it.

Now guys, you have a choice. The moment you first play with her nipples is very important. Chances are she will get a major sexual charge when her nipples are finally touched. (You may have given her nipple-less massage for 3 to 20 minutes.) Now gentlemen, you can massage them fast and hard, driving her bananas or start massaging them slowly and progressively massaging them faster. If you’re going to massage them fast immediately, as is the first option, some women will have an orgasm now.

Of course an option here is to secure a vibrator with white medical tape (the type used to hold gauge and cotton to cuts etc..) inside of her or over her clitoris as you are giving her Swedish Breast Massage. (Of course often the vibrator can be held in place if she keeps her panties on.) If you utilize this option, many women will cum at some point while you are massaging her breasts, and of course guys now too you can tell her to cum as you do during intercourse, though it might not be as easy for her to cum now compared to during intercourse. Remember guys her nipples get tender after orgasm and need to be left alone for a bit of time. Of course ladies, you can give yourself Swedish Breast Massage in the privacy of your bedroom .

After the massage, ladies your breasts tend to become firmer for a while and often they feel quite good for hours afterward.

TOYS

Sex toys are a great blessing of the modern age. Guys, assuming your budget can handle it, I’m firmly of the opinion that you can’t have enough of them. Of course many guys primarily rely on intercourse for sexual gratification of their lady, and as we know, it’s usually the best way to satisfy womankind sexually; still it can be relied on too much. In my opinion, intercourse, unless there is a rush, should not often take up more than 60% of sex (no matter how big your manhood is guys.)

Toys can work wonders in making your lady have orgasms and/or preparing her for them. Don’t forget guys, here too you can tell her to cum at the appropriate time just as you do during intercourse (though it might not be as easy for her to orgasm now as compared to during intercourse.)

A favorite by many women is the little vibrating “bullet.” It’s up to an inch thick, 2-3 inches long, cylinder shaped with rounded ends. The smaller size ones can be especially appreciated by women. And always keep extra batteries by the bed! Make sure to clean the toys off after each use. Many use rubbing alcohol for that purpose.

G-SPOT STIMULATION

Comparatively, not as many women have experienced the Grafenberg spot (G-spot) vibrator or manual G-spot manipulation. Guys, if you really want to impress her, search for and discover where her G-spot is. Remember though that G-spot response varies from woman to woman, and some may find it unpleasant or simply not special.

The Grafenberg spot (G-spot) is an area on the front wall of the vagina, between the opening and cervix, that is often found to be extremely sensitive to stimulation. It’s thought that the G-spot is either (1) a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or (2) a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. It’s thought to be perhaps analogous to the prostate gland in men.

To look for the G-spot, insert one or two fingers in the vagina with your palm facing the pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers 'forward' so that they stroke the front wall (thus the upper wall if she’s laying on her back) of her vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of pressure will most likely tell the woman if she’s got a G-spot or not.

Guys, an easy, cheap way to delay ejaculation for those special occasions is:

I am familiar with several guys who very successfully used the anti-hemorrhoidal and anesthetic ointment NUPERCAINAL for the above purposes. It’s an over-the-counter medicine and readily available at many drug stores. I suggest however that you only put a little on, particularly on the tip and underside of the tip of the penis. It will be absorbed by the skin after a while. Guys you’ll have to test it yourself to see what the best amount for your use is because if you put too much on you might not feel her stroking you in an attempt to make you hard. Please note this disclaimer. I do not know if there are any side effects to its use and though I know of nobody having a problem with it, it’s possible. Contact a physician before using it or doing something like it. Sorry but I don’t want to risk getting in deep do-do with the American Medical Association or any other official organization.

If a woman respects a man enough to have sex with him, she often has enough respect for him, or could develop enough sexual respect for him, to have orgasms when he tells her to. Exceptions could include if there is notable tension in the relationship and/or in her life.

Again, if what we’re talking about in this book doesn’t work to start out with, keep trying, though not necessarily every time you two have sex. Chances are good that it will eventually work for you. If it doesn’t work for you as a member of a couple, remember this for when you two are separated and with other partners, should that ever occur. Another thing, not that you don’t know this, but may I suggest finding your sexual fantasy and hopefully your partner will enjoy it or at least join you in it (assuming it isn’t too weird.) I hope you don’t mind the short and to the point nature of this publication. Thank you for reading this. **In case anybody’s wondering, “Amante” is one way to say “lover” in Italian. It was only used in the title of this publication to make it more catchy (hopefully.)